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The things I regret most as a parent aren’t the big decisions I made.They’re the small ones I didn’t realize mattered—until I became a grandparent. Back when my kids were at home, I spent a lot of time stressing over the big stuff like should I work outside the home or stay home full-time? Was it too soon to sign my son up for hockey, or should I wait another year for him to grow physically and emotionally? I thought those were the choices that would shape their future. But now, with the perspective that only time can give, I see things differently. It was the everyday moments that left the most profound imprint such as the way I responded when they were angry and upset. The words I chose and yelling when I was tired.The times I stayed silent when they needed me to say something to comfort and support them. In this blog, I’m sharing five life lessons I deeply regret about my parenting style —not to feel bad about the past, but to gently remind us of what really matters. Because it’s never too late to learn, grow, and show our kids a better way.

"I just don’t want to fight!" Have you ever said that? Maybe after a disagreement with a friend, a co-worker, or even your partner? I sure have more times than I care to remember. Arguing can feel like stepping barefoot onto a hidden Lego in the dark—uncomfortable and painful. Ouch! But what if I told you that arguing isn’t the problem—it’s how we communicate that makes all the difference? Disagreements can strengthen relationships without damaging them when handled with effective communication . Let me tell you a quick story. My friend Sarah and I have been close for years. This one time, she forgot about an important lunch date, leaving me sitting at the restaurant, checking my phone, wondering where she was. When she finally called—an hour later—she apologized, but I was hurt and angry. I had two choices: avoid the conflict and let resentment build or have an honest conversation. It’s so much easier to avoid conflict and live with resentment because then you can justify the hurt caused by the other person's actions. This time, I chose the second option. It wasn’t easy, but our friendship grew stronger in the end. Arguing doesn’t have to damage relationships when handled with effective communication . That’s why I’m sharing 5 easy tips for effective communication when arguing —so you can turn disagreements into opportunities for deeper understanding.









